Hi Lunaishere,

Thank you for the thoughtful response! I do believe that boundaries are important no matter if you had history with the other party or not, but I also don’t like hurting people. Especially when I’m trying to be true to myself.

It makes me question my moral compass. I don’t feel we need to accept people back into our lives or to be friends with everyone, but I also don’t feel that I did the right thing or handled it the right way because of the guilt I’m feeling.