Dear Mina:

“Yes. Every time it’s my fault… What do you think my mom wants?“- I am guessing that like my mother, your mother wants to feel that nothing is her fault and that everything is someone else’s fault. To feel guilty feels badly, so she doesn’t want to feel it. She doesn’t care that you feel pain, as long as she doesn’t feel guilty. Do you think that this is the case with your mother?

“In one of the office a person used to Leer at me. My mother kept quiet. She said I’m I imagining. But why?“- I am guessing (and you can tell me if it’s true) that when something happens in your life that she doesn’t like, she simply says it didn’t really happen, that you were only imagining it.

anita