January 17, 2023 at 9:02 am #413980
“Yes. Every time it’s my fault… What do you think my mom wants?“- I am guessing that like my mother, your mother wants to feel that nothing is her fault and that everything is someone else’s fault. To feel guilty feels badly, so she doesn’t want to feel it. She doesn’t care that you feel pain, as long as she doesn’t feel guilty. Do you think that this is the case with your mother?
“In one of the office a person used to Leer at me. My mother kept quiet. She said I’m I imagining. But why?“- I am guessing (and you can tell me if it’s true) that when something happens in your life that she doesn’t like, she simply says it didn’t really happen, that you were only imagining it.
anitaJanuary 17, 2023 at 10:52 am #413989
I would like to read more from you, Mina. I would like to be your friend in the context of this thread, and hope that you will feel better for it.
anitaJanuary 17, 2023 at 7:07 pm #414017
My tablets have been increased again. My mind is going blank. What do I doJanuary 17, 2023 at 7:41 pm #414018
My mother keeps checking everything I do. She knows I’m up to something.January 17, 2023 at 8:04 pm #414019
Is there anyone in real-life who can help you, anyone who can be on your side (not on your mother’s side- but your side), and help you, Mina? (I will soon be away from the computer for the next 10 hours or so).
anitaJanuary 17, 2023 at 9:36 pm #414027
There is a nature walk in my city but my mother is saying you will get cheated don’t go. All my life she has warned me but indirectly made do wrong things. How do I trust people. Will most people cheat.January 18, 2023 at 5:27 am #414035
To answer your question I need to understand it better. If you walk on the nature walk in your city, how will people cheat you, according to your mother; in what way will they cheat you (steal from you, rob you… what?)
anitaJanuary 18, 2023 at 5:42 am #414036
I keep thinking whether what I am doing is right or wrong. But still I get into trouble. Like when I was a kid and then till my college it was my mother who decided what I should wear. Now she says I don’t know how to dress. Then she went and bought same clothes. Now I wonder what’s wrong.January 18, 2023 at 5:51 am #414037
At 40 years old, you should not be told what to wear by your mother. What kinds of clothes do you like to wear?
anitaJanuary 18, 2023 at 5:52 am #414038
About the Nature walk my mom didn’t specify . She said you are stupid they are intelligent.
I had joined for yoga class I used to tell my mother who was there what I did what we spoke what I learned and then suddenly after 3 months I fell ill. Later my mom said don’t join for job don’t join any class. Now I’m afraid to join class. I don’t know whom to trust parents or others. Now when I say I’ll learn some hobby at home itself my parents say we can’t waste money on you. Once my mother asked loudly as in even neighbors can hear that loud are you jealous of me? I was taken aback. In my dreams also I didn’t think like this.January 18, 2023 at 5:55 am #414039
I like to wear comfortable, washed clothes. If I dress fancied my mom says wrong if I dress simple my mom says wrong. So I’m wondering why and what is correct?January 18, 2023 at 6:01 am #414040
About the Nature walk…. I assumed as my mom didn’t specify that people will befriend me and cheat me somehow. So I judgemental lyr speak to everyone. Also when people ask me for help I help but when I ask them for help they say no like my school friend I used to ask her for books when I was working she said she has them but won’t give them.January 18, 2023 at 6:03 am #414041HelcatParticipant
Your mom is bullying you and this is wrong. If your mom says something the opposite is more likely to be true.
You deserve peace, happiness and to be treat kindly.January 18, 2023 at 6:04 am #414042
Can i refer to you as Anita?January 18, 2023 at 6:05 am #414043
I feel sad that your mother said that you are stupid, very sad. I wonder if she told you this since you were a child, did she?
I wish you didn’t live with your parents. I wish that your mother did not tell you what to wear, where to take a walk, whether to apply for a job or not, or whether to join a class, or take on a hobby at home.. I wish all these were your decisions, not your mother’s or your father’s.