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  • #413980
    anita
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    Dear Mina:

    Yes. Every time it’s my faultWhat do you think my mom wants?“- I am guessing that like my mother, your mother wants to feel that nothing is her fault and that everything is someone else’s fault. To feel guilty feels badly, so she doesn’t want to feel it. She doesn’t care that you feel pain, as long as she doesn’t feel guilty. Do you think that this is the case with your mother?

    In one of the office a person used to Leer at me. My mother kept quiet. She said I’m I imagining. But why?“- I am guessing (and you can tell me if it’s true) that when something happens in your life that she doesn’t like, she simply says it didn’t really happen, that you were only imagining it.

    anita

     

    #413989
    anita
    Participant

    I would like to read more from you, Mina. I would like to be your friend in the context of this thread, and hope that you will feel better for it.

    anita

    #414017
    Mina
    Participant

    My tablets have been increased again. My mind is going blank. What do I do

    #414018
    Mina
    Participant

    My mother keeps checking everything I do. She knows I’m up to something.

    #414019
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Mina:

    Is there anyone in real-life who can help you, anyone who can be on your side (not on your mother’s side- but your side), and help you, Mina? (I will soon be away from the computer for the next 10 hours or so).

    anita

    #414027
    Mina
    Participant

    There is a nature walk in my city but my mother is saying you will get cheated don’t go. All my life she has warned me but indirectly made do wrong things. How do I trust people. Will most people cheat.

    #414035
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Mina:

    To answer your question I need to understand it better. If you walk on the nature walk in your city, how will people cheat you, according to your mother; in what way will they cheat you (steal from you, rob you… what?)

    anita

    #414036
    Mina
    Participant

    I keep thinking whether what I am doing is right or wrong. But still I get into trouble. Like when I was a kid and then till my college it was my mother who decided what I should wear. Now she says I don’t know how to dress. Then she went and bought same clothes. Now I wonder what’s wrong.

    #414037
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Mina:

    At 40 years old, you should not be told what to wear by your mother. What kinds of clothes do you like to wear?

    anita

    #414038
    Mina
    Participant

    About the Nature walk my mom didn’t specify . She said you are stupid they are intelligent.

    I had joined for yoga class I used to tell my mother who was there what I did what we spoke what I learned and then suddenly after 3 months I fell ill. Later my mom said don’t join for job don’t join any class. Now I’m afraid to join class. I don’t know whom to trust parents or others. Now when I say I’ll learn some hobby at home itself my parents say we can’t waste money on you. Once my mother asked loudly as in even neighbors can hear that loud are you jealous of me? I was taken aback. In my dreams also I didn’t think like this.

    #414039
    Mina
    Participant

    I like to wear comfortable, washed clothes. If I dress fancied my mom says wrong if I dress simple my mom says wrong. So I’m wondering why and what is correct?

    #414040
    Mina
    Participant

    About the Nature walk…. I assumed as my mom didn’t specify that people will befriend me and cheat me somehow. So I judgemental lyr speak to everyone. Also when people ask me for help I help but when I ask them for help they say no like my school friend I used to ask her for books when I was working she said she has them but won’t give them.

    #414041
    Helcat
    Participant

    Hi Mina

    Your mom is bullying you and this is wrong. If your mom says something the opposite is more likely to be true.

    You deserve peace, happiness and to be treat kindly.

    #414042
    Mina
    Participant

    Can i refer to you as Anita?

    #414043
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Mina:

    I feel sad that your mother said that you are stupid, very sad. I wonder if she told you this since you were a child, did she?

    I wish you didn’t live with your parents. I wish that your mother did not tell you what to wear, where to take a walk, whether to apply for a job or not, or whether to join a class, or take on a hobby at home.. I wish all these were your decisions, not your mother’s or your father’s.

    anita

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