Dear William  Shen:

If the two of you met on an online dating site, it is common- in that context- to date more than one person at a unit of time. Here is a possible scenario: she dated another guy a few times, wasn’t sure about him, then she had a first date with you and had a wonderful time. Later that night, the other guy called her, they had a long conversation during which they got emotionally closer, and after that conversation, she felt too guilty to have a 2nd date with you.

Is this a possibility, and if it is, how does it make you feel?

anita