I began a response to this citing examples and pleadings similar to the sorts of discussions I have had with both of my children, and I find myself once again feeling like a small child pleading to be heard in a room of chattering adults.  I realize that reveals more of my self image than I care to, but there it is.

I simply don’t think that anyone of my age should have to feel or be made to feel like they are less worthy of respect and consideration due any other adult human being.  I did the best that I could with what I had and knew at the time, and I raised my children and accepted responsibility for their existence,  Period.  For that, I believe that I am entitled to a fair amount of respect and consideration, and I am tired of being given anything less than that.