Dear LoveMySons,

I am sorry that your youngest son has cut off all communication with you.

I had to look up what parental alienation syndrome is, and it says: “Parental alienation is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child’s relationship with the other parent and to turn the child’s emotions against that other parent.”

Does it mean that your husband has been telling your children stuff against you and made them turn against you, ever since they were 11 and 12 years old? May I ask if you are divorced from your husband?

Their Chinese family had cultural background that said that the children belonged to the “family” aunties as well, and I became the outsider …

Does it mean that the children lived separately from you? I am trying to understand the circumstances…

I am sorry if you were a victim of narcissistic abuse, which also involved alienating you from your children. Please share some more if you’d like to.