Dear Priyan:

“She is a self proclaimed empath and a spiritual person. She believes in past lives, reincarnation…  last night, she said that she wanted to end it because she goes into a depressed state after we have sex…. According to her this is a sign from the universe that my ‘soul’ is not good for her ‘soul’. She also claimed that I drain all her energy when I am with her and called me an ‘energy vampire’. Now what I don’t understand is, how can I be bad for her soul when I only have respect and love for her? I have never had any ill intentions towards her at all. When I asked her this question, she said that I am a good person but my soul is doing it subconsciously”-

– So, what she is saying that it is not Priyan in his current incarnation (as Priyan) who is an “energy vampire” who is draining her energy and making her depressed every time after she has sex with you, but it is your previous incarnations (as other people who lived and died before you) who are doing this to her. This means that you (Priyan) having love and respect for her and no ill intentions is not relevant, because it’s about people who lived and died before you were born.

“It hurts a lot because she made me the bad guy here”-  correction: the guys before you were born.

“On top of being hurt, I am losing my mind trying to figure out if there was any truth to what she said. How am I even supposed to make sense of her reasons, let alone move on?“-

– You can’t argue against her faith-based, never to be proven or disproven current understanding of things. Looking at the title of your thread, “Was I led on or was it all my imagination?“- seems to me that she is led by her own imagination, at this point, and it’s better for you to not take a further ride in her imagination journey.. or episode.

How do you feel about my reply?

anita