Thanks for the reply Anita,

Maybe he is feeling that pressure because we did have such a connection and even though we said we would put a halt to it, neither one of us really did.  Even though we keep our interaction strictly friendly in our messages maybe “just friends” isn’t really what he wanted.
All I can do now is give him time I suppose. I don’t want to potentially miss out on something great with this man but I’m also not going to wait forever if someone can’t make up their mind how they feel about me.

Thanks again! It’s so good to talk to someone who doesn’t know us personally. My friends are a little biased and think I should just stop with this man but that’s not where my heart is just yet.