Dear Roberta,

Thats true but someone can send a text because they have taken a deep look at their lives, themselves,etc and figured out what they really want in life and someone else could send the same text just because they couldnt find anyone to date them again and so its out of despiration or just familiarity. Not sure how to test this/get clarity on this. Personally speaking, i didnt find anyone to date over the past 3 years but i never texted him cause i know he is familiar and sparking anything means im just going back to whats known and out of despiration.could be just a different approach to life, im not sure