Hi Tommy

Well these things are all a matter of perspective. Lots of people come here with broken hearts after relationships end. Not everyone grieves the loss of a relationship in the same way.

And people don’t stop feeling things in an instant because you tell them to. It takes time and hard work to get over these things. Some say, half the length of the relationship is how long it takes to heal.

I’m really sorry that you feel like you need to leave because I think a lot of people here, myself included value your messages which have shown a lot of insight. It would be a loss to the community for you to leave. I was happy to see that you were replying to people regularly. I just think that people are more receptive if they are not offended.