Dear Sarah

I am sorry that your mother is ill.

What ever the prognosis is, what is important is to let your mum know that she is loved and that you appreciate all that she has done for you. If you do not have any easy relationship with your mother, now is the time to work on forgiveness/ acceptance look for & hold onto any good memories or qualities.  My mother was a strong personality and we had interesting encounters but in the last year of her life I had to see & remind myself that my mother had become frail, fearful & some times in pain,  then an up welling of love & compassion would arise within me & I could temporary put aside the baggage of our past.

kind regards

Roberta