Hello Anita,

Yes, you are right. People in pain do not make sense. Suicidal people make the least amount of sense. Sometimes you can be spot on. But, you are not here. You show sympathy and empathy and I guess that is what these people come here for. To be coddled and told that they deserve better. I only reflected what she herself wrote. Told her she needs to change. Sometimes people need a kick in the butt to realize what they are doing is wrong. Move on. You read this one sided story and say poor girl. I see her doing this to herself and that she needs to help herself out of this. Cruel words indeed. Nothings has changed. But, my apology is real. I am sorry for opening my words to someone in pain and suicidal.

Hmm, you offer me an opportunity to start my own thread? I guess I must have missed where I need your permission. I do not have a marriage problem. But, I give my one sided story and you think there is a problem. I react to people straight forward and you believe I am having anger issues. Are you projecting your own abuses on me?

No one said that she chose to be abused and therefore, deserves to be abused. No one deserves to be abused. Absolutely no one. But, if you come to a forum then opinions will come out. Even if they are not to your liking. You want to sugar coat it. Okay, I’ll leave it to you. Live long and prosper.