Hi Anita

You are very special! ❤️ I’m sorry to hear that you haven’t been sleeping well again. I hope that tonight is easier.

It is hard to suffer from the far reaching effects of child abuse.

I don’t know what my husband is covering in his therapy. I wouldn’t ask about such a private thing. He has started to take breaks during disagreements for himself since starting therapy. I am hopeful that as he appreciates the benefits for himself, he will understand the behaviour more, feel less threatened by it and be more open to me taking breaks.

Thank you for sharing all of your thoughts and the information on fears of abandonment.

He tends to want to continue disagreements and arguments for too long for me. He is a naturally loud person, so raises his voice sometimes. He tends to follow me if I try to walk away. He tends to threaten to leave me and say mean things when he’s angry. He never used to say things like that before. It’s been hard.

Love and best wishes, always! ❤️🙏