Hi,
I am trying to get back on the same horse 🙂 here s a few things I found which resonated well
1) the infidelity had nothing to do with you, but the way you let it affect you is your choice.
2) for me, the whole mess has been the greatest spiritual growing experience till now.
3) dating again with the perspective that you ll be fine even when single can be a lot more fun and fulfilling.
4) Self confidence comes from the self..
5) there are atleast five TED talks that should be listened to , about vulnerability, shame, self compassion , seduction and marriage.
6) Once you start growing as a person, you ll attract the right kind of people, they ll be drawn to your being.
Good luck to you (and to me), hope it helps.
love
B