Did you see this quote on the first page of the website? “Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.” ~Erica Jong Paul, you have taken the first serious step after thinking your situation through over time. Stand confidently in your decision. Keep your “feelings” in check with the factual reality. When you have the flood of emotions, ask yourself, what is the reality of this. Next step, go somewhere different for dinner, be alone enough to have time to think and meditate. You know what is best for you and the situation. You will start to see small pictures of yourself, being solo…and liking who you are!