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    Scott Reynolds
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    In order to prevent my peers from trailing off in bordem I shall condense my story.
    My parents had a very traumatic divorce resulting in jail time for father and abandonment from mother.
    Bullied ar school due to anxiety (later diagnosed as Hyperthyroidism)
    Friends treated me as a 2nd best.
    I married for security and moved to remote location having two children leaving everyone behind me.
    Finally diagnosed for hyperthyroidism and given radio therapy.
    Now miss my friends and all I threw away as a result of my mental health.
    I have met someone new who makes me feel really, really happy.
    My wife is upset as she supported me for the last 8 years and know I want out.
    I know I am responsible for her hurt but cannot help my new self.
    I am finally confident in me and want more than a reclusive life. My wife likes this reclusive place.
    Please don’t judge as I know I am horrid but just want to be happy.
    Am I just rebounding? The new girl really makes my heart sing but I am not sure she feels the same.
    Help me please and thanks in advance for anything said. Anything goes here xo please no moderation. P

    #54148
    HabitualLinecrosser
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    Hahaha! Wow! …Come oooooon down…you’re the next contestant on the price is right!

    #54396
    BruceWayne
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    Scott,

    It is natural to seek happiness, but it shouldn’t come at the cost of hurting others, such as your wife. I think what is most important is that if you haven’t already spoken with your wife, you should do that. Marriages has its ups and it’s downs, seek marriage counseling if you have too. Maybe the happiness you seek is right in front of your face but you just cant see it yet. You may have married for security, but you need to ask why did your wife marry you?

    Unless this other lady you are seeing on the side single w/no kids, then you have lots more to lose, while she doesn’t really lose anything. You are not even sure if she feels the same about you as well.

    If you do want out of your marriage, thats one thing. However, you should do these things for yourself, and not for other people.

    @Linecrosser: Your laugh reminds me of the Joker.

    Sincerely,
    The Dark Knight

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