Thank you Michael for being courageous enough to express your feelings and being open to others perspective. This post has confirmed to me that the feelings I am currently experiencing can also pass with time. I too met someone who I honestly had no intentions on getting to the place where I found myself at presently. I unexpectedly found myself loving him more than he loved me at least this is what I told myself for his lack of effort towards the simple things like a simple goodnight or good morning or that what it seems because I kept saying actions speak louder than words and his actions were weak. I will post my story in hopes that others can give me a more direct insight to how to overcome this hurdle. Again thank you and I am happy I found this site. Overall I am feeling resentment and this is no one else fault but mines. Thought of stupidity and lack of awareness makes me feel like I should have slowed down and knew better than to try to mend my fragile heart.