Could you try a media free house? He knows how you feel. Just say, “While you’re at home, I’m the only woman you need to see.” Have him do his “emails”, “TV”, “News”, “Internet time”, “cell phone” use out of the house. When he’s looking stuff up (ANY media!) at Starbucks, commuting, etc. it’s just not the same. Then when he’s home he’ll have to connect with you at some level. What will happen is he’ll grow to like the simplicity and quiet. You’ll have calmed down too. In the beginning there will be grousing lol.