Ajen,

I’m sorry things aren’t working out the way you hoped, and can understand the mystery that springs to life when our heart feels conflicted. On one hand, you love him, and hoped for a family with him, but on the other, his feelings have changed, and so have yours. To me, it sounds like you love the dream of him, of family, and are really wanting that. Is it with him though? Is it him, the man, that attracts you?

It seems his heart isn’t into you in that way, and pokey as it may be, sometimes sexual and romantic feelings get intermixed, confused, when old friends connect. All perfectly normal, usual, and common.

The solution to the mystery is actually pretty simple. Trust your path, and get back to business, hobbies, self nurturing. Reinvest in the dreams you had before him, without him in it, and if something changes, who knows. Don’t wait, waste… your breaths are precious, dear sister, and there’s a whole world out there. 🙂

With warmth,
Matt