Hi April

I am sorry for your suffering and hope you will take a proactive approach to turning your life around.

I will share my perspective on your queries. See if they resonate with you.

The world outside is not in turmoil but your inner world is. The world outside is merely a mirror of what goes on inside us. I wont be surprised if in your inner world, you are being too hard on yourself. Can you take a chill pill, pls and learn to be kind to yourself. If you are not kind to yourself, everyone will come and walk all over you.

To be able to give self-love, we need self-control and acceptance that we are awesome as we are.

Secondly, we get what we give out. It is a hard concept to digest but if you take a few moments to meditate on it, you will realise the simplicity of this truth. When you put a tomato seed into the ground, you expect to see a tomato plant in its plant in a few weeks, yeah ? Similarly, if we are hard on ourselves, everyone around us turns their back on us.

Universe wants us to learn to be fair and loving towards self. We come alone and we go alone from this world. The moment we start to attach expectations to our relationships, they WILL let us down. When they let us down, we feel sad and start to question everything and cycle continues.

Your resentment, loneliness, depression, sadness is NOT outside. This is how you are treating yourself and others are just giving it back to you in other forms such a BF not being concerned, career not going as planned etc.

Life is not meant to be a struggle or a misery. We turn it into a struggle with our ignorant or arrogant mind. Learn to love yourself and accept yourself. With this transformation, you will develop acceptance for others and you wont feel let down. Everyone is being the best they can be in their lives and they are just giving us what we give them.

If you give love, how can it not come back to you ? If it didnt, it would defy universal law, which is highly unlikely in terms of energy principle. My personal experience also confirms that the more love and respect I give to self and others, the more it comes back to me and I love it. Can you trial something similar ? Stop judging yourself and others too harshly. Let things be 🙂 and flow with life. It will unfold beautifully then.

If you take one thing from this post, it will be – stop judging self or others. We are creators of our destinies and not some judge of a legal court.

Blessings and loads of smiles

Jasmine