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  • July 12, 2014 at 6:50 am #60682
    wieethequeen
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    Hi,i was in love with this guy.He has difference race from mine,and religion also.But,i was deeply in love with him.The more i trying to forget the more harder it is.We didn’t be together because,i’ve got offered to study away from my hometown(another state which can reach by plane or ship only)and of course race and religion also matters.I told him that I will not have any boyfriend (cause I know,when i fall in love with someone,i just love him and no one else).However,he still refused to trust me because he had bad relationship in past.It has been a year,and i still waiting for him.I can’t forget him and everyday i miss him.Its been a year already.Other guys do approach me,but i don’t have any feelings to have a relationship.What should i do?I have the strong feeling that he scared if i became like her ex girlfriend.Or,he just can’t love me the way i love him?Anyone has been in my situation?And how you get over it?

    July 12, 2014 at 9:29 am #60715
    coolcorriander
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    Hello Wieethequeen!

    I’m sorry to hear that you’re in such a situation.

    Love is amazing isn’t it? But at the same time it can drives you crazy. Wiee, you’re young and you have your life ahead of you and you know what, dont make things too complicated for your self.

    It’s good that you’re going away to study as it’s going to shape your future. We can’t ignore good opportunities! About your bf, you offered him your love and trust. Long distance relationship is hard, do-able but hard. Some people can’t handle it. I know for sure I wont be able to do long distance relationship.

    My point is.. you’re willing and he’s not. I suggest for you to pick up your hearts, kiss him good bye and on with your life.

    Get to know other people and be happy. After all, that’s one of the task why we’re here… Be kind to our self and others, Look after our self and other and BE HAPPY.

    Much Love xo

    July 12, 2014 at 10:01 am #60719
    wieethequeen
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    Thank you so much @coolcorriander.

    Your thought means a lot to me :).Yaaa,Love is amazing and totally drove me crazy.I fall sick when i’m away from him.I get mad to him because he didn’t trust me.I want to hate him,but I just can’t.Thats the power of love aite?

    Yaa,since I young,I want to workhard.And,I think,away from him is a best way except for those missing moments.I scared if I can’t be better than him or as better as him.He got stable jobs,cars,houses and everything.Our age gap is quite big.So,first of all,i will focus on my study and future.Maybe,i have to learn to let him go because I want to be with him,but he doesn’t.Wasting my time and energy.I will try to make everything simple.

    And,i will find a way to be happy 🙂

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