Hi Michael,
Clearly we are all unique and worthy.
Time is what you need now. When my wife decided to end our marraige, I was in terrible shape for a few years. It probably did not help that I waited to date until the divorce was final – 3 years – but it’s what felt right.
As Matt pointed out, it’s been my fears that have kept me from being my normal self. We all need to work through things our own way. I find it very helpful to get and give advice here.
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Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 