Thanks Jas <3

Hi Zaica,

I understand that family means a lot to you, I’m an Indian too and your issue is typical of an issue that occurs once a woman marries and joins the husband’s family.

The only thing that strikes my mind to convey to you is – do what YOU want for yourself. Practically, we really cannot consider what everybody in the family (there are many) members want. From my own experience I have observed in all the cases that it’s best to consider what we want rather than what others want from the marriage; after all it’s YOUR marriage, not everybody else’s!

Seek your husband’s support to take any decision. It has to be mutual, that’s how it’s best to solve the issue, be it to be together or seek separation.

From your post, I understand that you want to unite with your husband, see if this is what he also wants.

Please, ignore a bit of advices coming from all sides (I can imagine), and concentrate on what you want!

A quote I once came across – ‘Figure out what you want, and know how to ask for it’.

Lots of love and light to you!!