hi @Big blue..
thanks …wid ur reply i got a chance to look at the situation from his angle.
im sorry for ur pain… i hope u r healing now….
friend i belive in my situation ..he was already well informed by the girl that she is not interested in any such things ,as she is totally into her carrier… n my care towards him was more like as a friend… he used to talk abt his personal life…he used to make me feel soo bad abt his condition that now i think..that it was a complete emotional blackmail.. he cried in front of me…he lied to me.. he did everythng to impress me.. knowing that whatever im doing is because we wer frnz.. and moreover..he has seen me taking care of our oder classmates..be it guy or a girl.. i hav never done anythng special for him..which wud make him blame me dat i hav made him to fall for me.. he has seen me being der for our very dear mutual guy frnd..when he was going thru a tough time… and that guy(our mutual frnd) never came wid a proposal..he consider me a very good frnd..n shares his secrets wid me.!! i think i hav become defensive now 🙂 but thats how things wer…
im praying for him.. but yes im still hurt..im practicing compassion.. hope we heal.. n move ahead in life..happy wherever we r..
thanks friend ..ya we are beautifully complex:) God Bless 🙂