Hi Cyd,
Over the past couple years, did you date or have a girlfriend?
My guess is that when you go on some dates, she will see you differently. Also, you MAY have fun going out and doing things.
Ladies please weigh in on this…. If she does not notice your newfound activities I’d be surprised, so she MAY be puzzling. If down the road she starts treating you like she is interested, you MAY explore that with her. But, a reframing would put your focus not on releasing her as much as going ahead just on new experiences and to have fun.
Big blue
PS: part of me says to rent out a baseball stadium sign and say “Zelda – You are by far the groovy-est chick in the ballpark!” But I’d wait until she shows interest.
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