Whenever you think of him, look at your child. If you do get back together (NOT!) your daughter will either eventually see the verbal abuse or even get some herself! Picture her walking into your shared house and she can FEEL the Not Right Energy. She sees Mommy looking defeated and sad.

Now see her as a teenager and she goes out to meet a boy at the library because he’s helping her with trig. And Mom’s BF calls her a “s***, and by the way, all women are.”

Imagine someone saying all the things you were told to your child. If you imagine it right, a white-hot rage should blaze inside you. That’s the emotion to feel concerning this.

Treat yourself like a queen. Jokers are dismissed!