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Two things:
1. Nine times out of ten, a real man won’t be with you unless he really WANTS to be with you!
2. If he’s younger and still playing the field, you should be able to pick up on that energy right away.
So which is it? Your insecurities from inside or you picking up that there is someone else in the wings?
It is probably you. But, banish the “I’m not good enough” thought as he will soon feel that energy as well. Who gave you the message in your past that you weren’t good enough? What trauma happened?
What can help is shutting down all media. For example, beauty: Who needs to see skinny beautiful girls with schlubby guys, or fashion mags with young teens impersonating gorgeous women? Or watching 50 hours of Netflix on the adventures of someone a size 00? Same with success.
- This reply was modified 10 years, 3 months ago by Inky.