Hey David,

What we focus on seems to show up in our lives. If you have a habit of negativity, you might be attracting negative events, or just as likely, seeing potentially positive things in a negative light thus destroying happiness. Nobody can help you but you. If you really want things to change you will have to make the effort and learn that good things don’t come easy. This is a choice, your choice. If you choose to improve things, I would suggest baby steps. Break big ideas and goals down into smaller, more manageable steps. Set achievable short term objectives and put deadlines on accomplishing them. Make it easy for yourself. Good luck!