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Adam
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Hey,
First off I’d just like to say that a sense of humor saves lives. There will ALWAYS be someone that you don’t blend well with and until you learn to deal with your anger and frustration towards them, you will always be susceptible to their opinions or comments. Yes, I think you’re over-analyzing the situation but maybe that’s not a bad thing if you choose learn from the experience. Transform your anger in laughter. By overanalyzing the situation and getting angry, you’re literally allowing this person to take happiness away from you. Is she worth that?

Who cares what she thinks about you. Laugh at yourself. Laugh at the fact that your ego takes this so seriously. Maybe you’re self conscious about this topic and you feel insulted by her comments. I don’t know. But you do. Take the time to understand how you feel and why you feel that way, accept those feelings for what they are, and transform them into acceptance and happiness.

Every time you feel angry, take a step back and observe the effect it’s having on you and don’t take yourself so seriously. This is your life. Do you want to look back and remember someones opinion of you or do you want to remember the time you overcame your ego and empowered yourself?

Thepathofaronin.blogspot.com is my personal blog if you want any more advice.

I wish you the best of luck and encourage you to stop focusing on things that waste your time and happiness. There’s so much out there that can help you grow. Find it!