Hey Steve!

I love your plan for 2015! Sounds a lot like mine, which I am pretty excited about. Nothing better than focusing on yourself for a while and getting your shit in order. 🙂 I also completely understand what you said about losing yourself in relationships and I think it is so frickin great that you’ve realized this, because for me….I know figuring that out has been and will continue to be key in my happiness in and out of relationships.

Also, as sketchy as it might sound (although decime does make it sound pretty cool lol), I just want to say I wouldn’t be weirded out if some dude started chatting to me randomly. Some ladies might, but I think if done in a non-creepy way (ie: don’t comment on something about her physically) it’s actually kind of flattering. Shows lots of confidence, which is a huge turn on for pretty much any woman, I would say.

As my friend tells me, dating and meeting people is all a numbers game…you might have to go through lots before you find the right one. Hopefully not though lol. Speaking of friends – can you just put it out there with your friends that you’re single and looking to mingle? I think women especially enjoy playing matchmaker, so maybe if you don’t have a lot of female friends, speak to your guy friends’ wives about it. Even if it’s not a love connection, it’s a good way to meet new people!