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Hi Scottieflying,
It sounds like he needs a secretary or a valet. If my dad didn’t have his secretary he would never know when my birthday was. No joke ~ the secretary went on vacation and I didn’t get a call. LOL
I might have ADD, I never got tested ~ some days I swear I do. Whenever I say I’m going to call/whatever I make a note of it in my iPhone Notes and then put it in my calendar at home as if it were an appointment.
If he makes his “shoulds” into “appointments” on the calendar, it will become a habit. The trick is not to fill up the calendar or he’ll get overwhelmed. It should be for those “oh by the way” things that come up. Maybe one a day.
Good Luck!
Inky