When we get swept up in desires we need to have the presence of mind to remember that we have the power to change our actions of that very moment. We have the control to now put ourselves in tempting situations or make it a point to remove ourselves from these situations as they arise. It requires will power, but sometimes we have to say to ourselves, “Whoa can’t let this go any further,” then walk out and maybe the other tries through some tactics by guilt tripping or whatever to get things going again and that is what its time run away.