Thanks so much. It is funny because I relation to the other girls, I notice I am the victim of a lot of mind control. I mean take for example I left before semi because of all of this, and when we started talking again.. She said all the right things, made all this sense. She’s very smart. And I felt my heart tugging to go back, completely glossing over the fact that I left in the first place and trying to assert myself. I have had talks with her. She said if I felt any bad feelings we should talk and can work on it. But slowly as time goes by I am noticing old patterns creep back in.. even though as a whole, in general, things aren’t so bad. So I feel justified staying