Hello Hien and welcome to the community!

For several decades now the world has grown to become evermore fast-paced and borderless. Things change very, very fast and for those that find refuge in certainty, the world can feel like a very demanding place.

One thing is for certain: Feeling bad for your situation is not going to serve you in any way, other than maybe push you to search for answers, as you are now.

As Scott Hamilton said: The only disability in life is a bad attitude.

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What I personally think is that you should try to better understand yourself and then “mold your world” around who you are and allow yourself to addapt to things that may be out of your control.

Lori (TinyBuddha) has many amazing articles and books (http://tinybuddha.com/tiny-wisdom-ebook-series/) that can help you simplify (or get the hang of) of not only your outer world (ambience, relationships, changes, etc.), but also your thoughts.

If you think it would help, I would gladly keep in touch with you and help in any way I can. You can send me an email at robert@wesrom.com whenever you wish.

We are stronger whan we allow ourselves to believe. The new town, the new job, the new whatever, is just that: whatever. In the long run, none of those will matter. What matters is that you find something to live for, to strive for.

If the first thing that pops up in your mind when you wake up is “Why me?” or any other negative thought, then that state in which you put yourself will “contaminate” you entire day. (if you let it)

I’ve already decided what I’m commited to (http://wesrom.com/my-personal-new-years-eve/) and you can do the same. If you find something that motivates and exites you enough, then life’s challenges will seem just a natural step to getting wherever you want to go.

I hope that I was of service to you today and wish you the strenght to adapt to and enjoy life.

Creating a better tomorrow,
Robert