” I would very much like to be in a healthy, equal partnership where theres trust, mutual respect and love but it seems impossible with this guy.”

I agree, I don’t think that’s going to be possible with this guy. You can find another guy, who will be able to relate to you in this way, after you leave this one.

“How can I be an enthusiastic, loving, caring, supportive partner during this time?”

Tell him you wish him well, and he’s not right for you.

He is not good for you. He is manipulative and dishonest. He only wants to hear from you or receive your love on his terms. He doesn’t care about what you might need. That’s because he’s not a good guy for you to be with. The other way you can tell you shouldn’t be with this guy is the effect it’s having on your mood and your self-esteem. The cure is simple. Freedom is within your grasp. Tell him you’re through.

You’re through.

Tell him.

Let us know what’s standing in the way if this does not seem like a possible solution for you to apply.