Dear Jade Green

What a strange coincidence that I have spent half my day thinking about doing exactly the same thing regarding my ex and then I read your story. We split up four months ago and although it was kinda mutual I have really struggled to let go. My idea of writing a letter was, a bit like you, to say goodbye. I haven’t written the letter yet, it’s all in my head and after a lot of soul searching today I have decided not to write it at all. I just feel that there is no point, it would be no good for me or for her to receive it.

I can’t advise you whether the content of your letter is right, I think that is a very personal thing and for you to decide. However, I do agree with Inky that you should not send it.

Good luck and take care.

Andy