Hi Anita,

Thank you so much for your reply.

I think my main issue is yes I am only responsible for my actions however my actions have caused pain for someone else. That’s where the overwhelming guilt is. I have spoken to him and he said hes forgiven me but im hoping with time I can forgive myself.

You have given me a different way of viewing things and although I may not be able to fully comprehend them right now and take a different way of thinking I will keep reading these replies and with time I hope to.