All I can tell you is that the line between love and hatred is VERY thin. Anyone capable of love is capable of hating too. People kill their spouses/and “loved ones”…people get divorced, that on it’s own is proof. I know you probably don’t like my philosophy about love but it’s reality. I like God’s definition, when you marry, you are to leave your mother and father, cling onto your wife and become one flesh… Nop, hasn’t happened to me yet :'(