I had a wonderful relationship with a man who went above and beyond to show me he cared. I let my insecurities and fear of our future together (or potential lack of one) push him away. I kept harping on these insecurities for weeks and instigating arguments until I had pushed him away completely. It took losing him to realize that I need to change. I want to beat my insecure and negative thoughts and become a more positive and loving person first for myself but for him as well. Does anyone have any advice on how I can better myself while also showing him (gently) that I am willing to change and do what it takes to keep him in my life? We ended things on good terms and want to remain in each others lives. He doesn’t want to keep seeing each other romantically now but says he isn’t totally discounting it in the future. Thank you for any guidance.