Dear Glet, if you don’t mind me asking. Did your ex give you the space, did he let you be and did you know that once you are better that he will still be there and you two can be together?
My only thought right now is she basically said lets just be friends and I like you as a friend. That she needs to figure herself out and why she can’t advance in this block. I mean for her to just friendzone me must be a sign of pushing me away. I just can’t see how we can be together, kissing, having sex and from one week to another just say hey, I think we need to stop this because I keep hurting you and I don’t want to do that anymore. I need to work on myself. I get the insecurity and what you are saying. I am now just realizing that it is not about me. It is about her. At least she knows that two bad relationships ago is the past and at this moment. She has a guy who was patient enough to wait for her to open up and hopefully she will know that I want to be here when she is ready and when she goes after me when she is ready.
Dear Jodi, thank you for your response. I am taking her answer as a “No” for right now. I don’t think I can offer her friendship and that was what we ended on the last conversation. That we both agree we can’t just be friends. I told her I tried to be Mr.Right and she said you are for me but at this moment something is missing that I need to understand better about (herself)
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