Hi Deusexmachina,

I agree ~ don’t call yourself “ugly”, even in your own mind! God didn’t create “ugly”. That said, there are things we can do to become MORE symmetrical, which is where “Beauty” lies.

With Attraction, it all comes down to chemistry. I’ve known models who I was NOT attracted to. Then there were guys who looked more like Bridge Trolls that were so sexy to me! One time I went to my sister saying, “Why do I like him? He’s BALD!” You know?

I’ve noticed that the more busy you are, the more people come to you. The less you need ’em, and the more you give ’em, they will come! I would get a cat and run a group. Seriously. When you’re the group leader, especially of a spiritual group, you will attract people who see beyond the physical. What could be more alluring at a party than when you say you’re the head of a meditation group? Or a volunteer leader who wants to save the world? Well, it worked for me!!

Good Luck,

Inky