Dear mallory:

You have three things that you listed working for your marriage as is:
1. You love him.
2. he loves you very much.
3. You feel a strong devotion to him.

To make this marriage work, focus on these three things and not on the MAYBE better suited man (many “perfectly suited couples” do get divorced).

You didn’t write any problem you have with your husband, any un-suitedness with him, so I don’t know what could be so important as to overshadow the mutual love and devotion?

anita