Dear prodigious:

You wrote that you still write her emails but “she doesn’t respond ever.” And you are waiting for her to respond, to change her mind and respond to you, I am guessing. If I was her and being in my right mind, I wouldn’t respond either because I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where my participation in it can bring you – somehow- to another suicide attempt. I wouldn’t want any responsibility in such. There are consequences to our actions. She lost your trust for good because of her action: flirting with guys six months into her relationship with you. You tried suicide and the consequence with her- following the last get together- may be the present no response to your emails.

If she changed her mind and responded, how would you deal then with the issue of your broken trust in her? What would you do different in relationship with her? If you were in a relationship with her, what would you do different during a future crisis?

anita