I agree you should probably ask him, with an understanding that he has a life in a difference country. It is hard having family and friends in another part of the world. I say this in order to protect your emotions. But I agree that it would be good for you to have a clear cut conclusion one way or another in order to move on. I had a long term relationship years ago where I felt my boyfriend didn’t want to stay but he kept on stringing me on, it is the worst. All I can say is that there are many good people out there, and if I hadn’t concluded the relationship I would not have met my husband, who I have been married to for years. I live by the rule that if someone takes away my energy or makes me feel bad, let it go. Hope it helps.