Good morning TheDayDreamer,

I could spend a lot of time writing about how your boyfriend is wrong and that if he loved you he would not be doing anything that he is aware causes you any kind of distress or makes you question his loyalty to you. What I am going to spend time writing about is this….start living your life for you and learn to love yourself more. Focus your time and energy on living a life full of joy, peace, and happiness. Do more inside work, and spend less time worrying about the wrong he may or may not be doing. All that is dark will come to the light and when it does as a woman you must be prepared to deal with it and move forward with dignity and grace. Life is a precious gift to be cherished and spending too much time in a life that doesn’t make you a better person is a wasted life. People do wrong all of the time, and karma absolutely deals with that so stop worrying yourself into more misery and take care of you. We as women are wonderful, beautiful creatures that are capable building amazing lives, but no woman that hasn’t done her inside work ever will become the queen she is meant to be. Deal with your anxiety and insecurity and be strong, and pray that God reveals your path so that you make wise choices and live in his will. I speak from experience and I promise that all the work is worth it!

Good luck,
Natalie