Hi starfish2111,

This is like if a slum child became the prince he was meant to be. However, the slum is still in the prince. It will take years/decades to fully integrate into a noble life. It’s almost like he has to have one small piece of darkness because the darkness is familiar and comforting.

I would have a long, deep talk with him and exchange one bad habit with another, better yet more addicting habit. i.e. gaming.

It sounds like you two are doing all the right things. But if you want to continue on and find someone else down the road, consider that maybe your purpose in his life IS/WAS to be a Friend.

Blessings,

Inky