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Hi guys!
I recently ended a relationship where the person wasn’t sure of what they wanted and was emotionally unavailable. Even though my intuition kept telling me he wasn’t right for me I kept trying to make it work, but it was like trying to make a square peg fit into a circle shape, useless. Finally, I decided I needed to honor those feelings and myself and confront him about it. I told him he knew who I was and continuing to date like this was not going to help him make up his mind. So I walked away.
I realized the fear of abandonment, of not finding someone better also kept me in this situation pass the expiration date.
So how do we deal with these feelings and trust that we are enough alone but also not to settle for “good enough”?