hang on a minute. and ‘Calamity CAi’ which is one of my alter egos. I’ll be the slightly annoying one who pushes people to check how much they believe what they say they believe.

No but in real life we don’t have to like everyone. Gads the TROUBLE I’ve got myself into in life because I felt I had to like everyone and really really wish I’d moved on and not stopped to say hello or listen or get sucked in to other peoples’ shite.

On Faceache I keep my friends down to a healthy 60 and even then often have a cull because I don’t feel the need to be liked everywhere I go. I am lucky to actually be loved everywhere I go because I don’t let people know I don’t like them haha – and I am veryu very unorthodox indeed.

so when I say everyone deserves validation , I believe that to the very core of my being, but I don’t see anything wrong with choosing not to be friends with people.

I DO see something wrong, however, in telling everyone you don’t like someone because it says more about you than it does the person you don’t like. it says you (a person) not only doesn’t like someone but will go out of their way to try to colour other peoples’ views of them too. That’s not cool.