Hello everyone,
I cannot begin to thank you enough for your advice and kind words. It means a lot to know that I am not the only person to experience this and there is hope at the end of the tunnel. I am going to stop trying to reject these feelings and just let them be. I am far too quick to get frustrated with myself for it, but now I shall simply stop lingering to these thoughts, but not reject them. Time to focus on the happy times with my new partner.
I am also going to try meditation, I think I have lots to work on myself and I have so many unanswered questions and answers from my previous relationship that I still worry about daily.
I guess its a recovery process and it might be long but there isn’t any other choice.

Once again, thank you so much!