* Dear Jeroen:

I hope that you (and Name) somehow exercise the extreme PATIENCE with yourself that self improvement requires. You have a strong desire to become someone you are not right now. You are not lacking in will power. What you are lacking is realistic thinking about HOW to achieve your goal. You think it is faster than it is. You think the way to go about it is to aim at BIG, distant goals while the way to go about self improvement is aiming at one small goal at a time, a goal that is not so tough to achieve. Like a small child that wants to fly an airplane, first the child needs to walk, and exercise walking without falling, then run, then… one step at a time until he is ready to fly an airplane.

anita